6/10
Senior Film Conservator
A definitive 6/10 rating for a film that redefined the boundaries of cult cinema. And So They Were Married remains a cornerstone of transgressive art.
If you like old-school romantic comedies where people talk really fast and everyone is constantly annoyed, then sure. It’s a breezy watch. But if you have zero patience for the 1930s trope of 'children are actually the masterminds ruining adult lives,' you might want to skip this one.
The whole premise is classic stuff. You get a hotel, a blizzard, and two people who definitely shouldn't like each other but obviously will by the time the snow melts. It’s not breaking any new ground, but it has that strange, cozy rhythm of a rainy Sunday afternoon movie.
I have to be honest—the kids in this movie are the worst. They are actively working against the leads, and it’s surprisingly stressful to watch. At one point, I found myself actually rooting for the blizzard to just stay for another two weeks so the parents could have some peace.
It reminded me a bit of the domestic squabbles in Meet the Wife, where family dynamics are treated like a tactical warfare situation. Why are these children so invested in their parents' loneliness? It’s a bit dark when you really think about it.
The chemistry between the leads is actually pretty solid, once the movie stops letting the kids interrupt every single conversation. There’s a scene in the lobby that goes on for a bit too long, and you can tell the actors are just waiting for the script to tell them to finally flirt. It’s awkward, but in a way that feels oddly human.
It’s not as sharp as The Weaker Sex, but it gets the job done. The set design is exactly what you expect—lots of velvet, dim lighting, and that specific 'hotel lobby' hum. 🏨
There's a moment toward the middle where the pacing just completely falls off a cliff. It’s like the editor took a nap. But then, it snaps back into gear, and it’s fine again. It’s an imperfect, slightly messy little film, but it didn't put me to sleep. That’s more than I can say for some of the other stuff from that era.
Just don't go in expecting a masterpiece. It’s a movie about people being grumpy in a hotel. Sometimes, that’s plenty. ❄️
